December 2023 Question and Answer


With the holidays here and the end of 2023 near, I’m uncertain how much to tip the people whose services I’ve used during the year. Any guidelines?


The following chart provides suggested tipping amounts for various service providers.

  • Teachers: $25 – $100
  • Daycare Providers: $20 – $70
  • Dogsitter: 1-2 weeks pay
  • Freelancers: 1 hours pay
  • Hairdresser: 20%
  • Delivery Persons: $20 – $75
  • Valet: $10 – $20

Consider Tipping Servers More

Servers in the U.S. earn below the minimum wage, with the best-paid waiting salary at $28,280. That is why your tip could make the difference between paying the bills on time or incurring a penalty or, worse, having utilities cut off for those who provide service to you.


Working for Tips

Whether as an employee or an employer, you should know the laws governing tipped employment.


Under federal law, employers must pay at least $2.13 per hour, as long as the hourly wage combined with the tips received equal the federal minimum wage of $7.25 per hour or more. If not, employers must make up the difference.

Keep in mind that many states require a higher hourly wage for tipped workers. In Oregon, it’s $12.75 per hour, and in Colorado, it’s $9.54 per hour.


Employees must retain all of their tips unless they participate in a valid tip pool or sharing agreement. Tip pooling is when the tips collected are put into a large “pool” and redistributed among a larger group of employees. An example is at a coffee shop where one employee may take orders, a few others make the drinks, and another busses and cleans tables after customers leave. Tip pooling ensures all workers receive their fair share of the tips.

Tip sharing doesn’t require an equal distribution of tips among employees. Usually, a distribution rate is set by the employer and includes employees who don’t customarily receive tips like dishwashers, chefs, and cooks. Employers, managers, and supervisors are prohibited from keeping employees’ tips, including those through a tip pool. Like pay rates, states have their own rules for tip pooling that may go beyond the federal requirements.


All cash tips are subject to Social Security, Medicare, and income tax. Employees are required to report monthly tip totals to the employer for tax reporting and withholding.

Employers must retain tip reports, withhold taxes on the hourly wage and tip income, and deposit the tax with the IRS. In addition, employers are also responsible for paying the employer’s share of Social Security and Medicare taxes.